A post from Meghan!
So my step-daughter L turned 13 on the weekend.
I know! It’s huge, right?
I’m not sure entirely how I feel about this. Mostly I’m excited for her (those years can be so great!), also slightly nervous (what if they aren’t?!) and more then a little nostalgic (um, wasn’t it just yesterday that I was a teenager?).
It’s strange to suddenly see your own teenage years as having taken place in ‘a simpler time’. I suppose this is just part of the growing up process, but still, you never think that you are going to say things like, ‘A cell phone?! Are you crazy? When I was your age we didn’t even have phones’, until the words fly suddenly out of your mouth. That is a *slight* exaggeration … we definitely had phones… in fact, the big battle when I was a teenager was to have a phone in my room. This must seem so quaint to today’s teens. And I didn’t even get one either, though, the compromise of a telephone, with ident-a-ring, bolted to the wall between mine and my sister’s room, with a long cord that could reach under the door, seemed to work pretty well. I think I knew one person in high school with a cell phone. No, to the teenager of the mid/late 90’s, the cutting edge of social networking technology was a pager. Anyone? Hilariously, I have tried to explain this to L, who replied, ‘But what is the point of knowing someone wants to talk to you when you don’t have a phone?’. I have to admit, I was stumped.
All of this is to say, that along side the iTunes and the must have clothes, I was happy to find something homemade for L’s birthday; something from a simpler time (haha!).
Enter Soule Mama .
I really hemmed & hawed about getting her third book. While I love to visit her blog for ideas and inspiration, I am not a huge fan of the musings on life (especially those penned by Soulepapa). If you have an aversion to earnest, semi-spiritual ramblings, this book is not for you. But if you can look past that, and it’s not easy as they both write an essay for each month, there are some great finds. So far I have found these three: the Potato and Leek Soup, the Everyday Oat Bread, and The Adventure Bag.
This bag is seriously fast to put together and there are soooooo many possibilities. Here, I’ve made it a Writer’s Bag, but it could easily be an Art Bag, Book Bag, Treasure Bag… whatever your little one (or big one) is in to.




Annabelle
/ December 14, 2011I love this idea of the Themed Bag… too bad I’m in the Can’t Read The Soulemama camp. She does have some really good ideas and most of my avoidance probably stems from latent envy and the conviction that there is a Big Lie happening somewhere in there. Regardless, I love the idea of the bag! Definitely keeping this one in mind for future gift ideas!
Also – the pager?!? HAhahahahahahah!!! L is SO RIGHT. Why have I never thought of that? It seemed so functional in the 90′s…. but then again, so did Ident-a-ring.
Meghan
/ December 14, 2011Hahahaha!! I will never understand how you read Gwyenth, but not SM!!!! And the pager thing killed me too. I totally remember it making sense!!! It’s humbling to realize you are no longer on the cutting edge of cool (and liberating to discover you don’t care!).
Katie
/ December 14, 2011“in fact, the big battle when I was a teenager was to have a phone in my room. This must seem so quaint to today’s teens. And I didn’t even get one either, though, the compromise of a telephone, with ident-a-ring, bolted to the wall between mine and my sister’s room, with a long cord that could reach under the door, seemed to work pretty well.”
Oh my goodness. I SO remember that conversation. And it was so expensive to get another line. My parents ended up springing for the 40-foot extendo cable from their bedroom. Again, it worked pretty well!